From Open Mics to Sold-Out Shows: Tips for Building Your Comedy Career as an LGBTQ+ Comedian

As an LGBTQ+ comedian just starting out, you’re likely excited, ambitious, and a little bit nervous about breaking into the world of comedy.

The journey from open mics to sold-out shows is a marathon, not a sprint. Here are some tips that can help you grow your career as an LGBTQ+ comedian, find supportive venues, and connect with audiences who get you.

1. Start with the Right Open Mics: Find LGBTQ+ Friendly Spaces

When you’re just starting out, open mics are essential for honing your craft. But let’s be real—not all open mics are created equal. Especially as an LGBTQ+ comedian, it’s important to find spaces that are inclusive, supportive, and welcoming. Look for LGBTQ+-friendly venues, queer bars, and community centers that host comedy nights, or check for venues that explicitly state their commitment to inclusivity.

Starting out in a supportive environment makes a huge difference. It’s where you can test your material, get comfortable on stage, and build confidence without worrying about whether your identity will be respected. Plus, these spaces often attract audiences who are there for diverse voices, which means you’re already connecting with people who are more likely to resonate with your perspective.

2. Create a Network of LGBTQ+ and Ally Comedians

Comedy is often seen as a solo venture, but it doesn’t have to be. Building a network of fellow LGBTQ+ comedians and supportive allies can be a game-changer. Not only does it create a sense of community, but it also opens doors to collaborative opportunities, shared gigs, and advice from others who’ve navigated similar challenges.

Follow other LGBTQ+ comedians on social media, attend shows they’re performing at, and introduce yourself after their set. Comedy festivals, LGBTQ+ events, and even online communities can be great places to start building these connections. Networking doesn’t just help you find new performance opportunities—it also gives you a sounding board for feedback, encouragement, and support in what can sometimes feel like a tough industry.

3. Embrace Your Authentic Voice

As an LGBTQ+ comedian, your identity is a big part of what makes your voice unique. Don’t shy away from your authentic self or feel pressured to “tone it down” for mainstream appeal. Embrace the parts of you that make your story yours, and share them with pride on stage. When you’re true to yourself, the right audiences will connect with you on a much deeper level.

Audiences can tell when you’re being genuine, and they respond to authenticity. The quirks, experiences, and insights that come from your LGBTQ+ identity are what set you apart. Remember, people want to hear fresh perspectives, and your experiences bring a voice that’s unique, necessary, and more relatable than you might think.

4. Know the Value of Your Brand

Think of your comedy as more than just a set—it’s a brand. What do you want people to feel when they see you perform? What themes or messages do you want to be known for? Whether it’s advocacy, identity, or just pure joy, know what you bring to the stage and lean into it.

Your brand should be present in your social media, website, and the way you interact with fans and bookers. If you’re clear about who you are and what you offer, people will remember you and seek out your shows. Curate your online presence in a way that’s consistent with your voice and values, so that fans know what to expect and feel connected to your journey.

5. Pitch to LGBTQ+ Events and Festivals

LGBTQ+ comedy festivals, Pride events, and LGBTQ+ nonprofit fundraisers can be a fantastic way to perform in front of audiences who are excited to hear queer voices. Look up annual LGBTQ+ festivals and events that might be open to comedy performances, and reach out to see if they’re booking talent. Many of these festivals are actively looking to diversify their lineups and bring in fresh voices, so don’t hesitate to put yourself out there.

The great part about performing at LGBTQ+ events is that you’re likely to connect with audiences who already understand your perspective. This can be a great way to build a loyal fan base and expand your reach within the LGBTQ+ community.

6. Create Content Beyond the Stage

Growing a comedy career today isn’t limited to live performances. Social media, especially Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, is an incredible way to reach audiences who may not be able to see your live shows. Consider creating short clips, reels, or sketches that showcase your humor and personality. Regular content keeps you top-of-mind and lets you connect with audiences between shows.

For LGBTQ+ comedians, these platforms are also great for advocacy. You can share funny takes on issues that matter to the community, post stories or experiences that educate while entertaining, and bring people into the “behind the scenes” of your journey as a queer comedian. By building an online presence, you’re expanding your reach and giving audiences a chance to discover your work, no matter where they are.

7. Build Resilience and Keep Going

Comedy is tough, and there will be nights when jokes don’t land, or you’ll encounter audiences who just don’t get it. Building resilience is key, especially as an LGBTQ+ comedian where certain jokes or topics may challenge the norms of mainstream comedy.

Every set, whether it kills or bombs, is a learning experience. Take notes, reflect on what worked and what didn’t, and keep pushing forward. As you grow, you’ll refine your material and build confidence. Persistence is what separates successful comedians from those who give up too early. If you keep showing up, honing your craft, and connecting with audiences, you’ll continue to grow and thrive.

8. Engage with Your Audience Beyond the Stage

Whether you’re performing at a local bar or selling out a venue, take time to connect with your audience after the show. People who resonate with your comedy often want to share their thoughts, stories, or words of support. These conversations can be energizing and remind you why your work matters.

Building a relationship with your audience strengthens your fan base and helps you create a community around your comedy. Your audience becomes part of your journey, and many will follow your career from open mics to headlining shows. Connecting with them not only makes your career more fulfilling, but it also builds a fan base that will come to your shows and support your work.

Final Thoughts: Growing a Comedy Career That’s Uniquely Yours

The journey from open mics to sold-out shows is a unique path for every comedian, especially for those of us in the LGBTQ+ community. But with authenticity, resilience, and a clear sense of who you are, you can turn a passion for comedy into a thriving career. Lean into what makes you different, connect with communities that support you, and keep showing up. It takes time, but with persistence and purpose, you’ll make a name for yourself as an LGBTQ+ comedian with something powerful to say.

For more tips and insights into my own journey, follow along on Instagram @RenQComedy. Because laughter is for everyone—and the more we share our stories, the closer we get to a world where every voice is celebrated.